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LOLA
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This web
page is devoted to telling the story of the first
dramatic months in the life of Lola May George.
from 22
March 2006 to 1 December 2006
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note the photos are arranged in reverse chronological
order
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Lola was born to Mary and
George on Wednesday 22 March 2006 in The Royal Sussex
Hospital, Brighton with a very serious heart defect,
called Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. She was
rushed to Southampton General Hospital where she had a 6
hour operation (called Norwood) followed by a few days in
intensive care. She was transfered to the Pedriatric
Cardiatric Ward E1 where she was well looked after for
the next 4 weeks.
Mary and George were
constantly with Lola and received much support from their
families and friends. After a week at home Lola had to
return to Southampton General Hospital for a small
operation to fix the chest wound which had not healed
properly. Lola had the second part of the Norwood
operation on Friday 15th September. Here are updates on
Lola's progress with photos taken both at the hospital
and at home.
Friday 1
December 2006
Lola went into
Southampton General Hospital for a cathecterisation
examination which involved a general anesthetic with
tubes in her neck and groin leading to her heart. The
news was good about the heart and no actual surgery was
required. Mary and Lola stayed in hospital for 2 days and
Lola was discharged on Saturday 2 Dec. Jean and I went
over to the hospital to see them on the Friday after
Lola's operation and, as you will see from the photos,
she was looking remarkably well and active. Mary and
George popped into Emsworth on the way home to meet
Peter, Julia and Lily.
Lola
"behind bars" in Ward E1 after her cathecterisation
check-up at the hospital - 01.12.06
Lovely
Lola after her little op - 01.12.06
Lola
looking happy after her little operation -
01.12.06
Lola
with her Grandma in Southampton General Hospital -
01.12.06
Lola
with the rest of the family in Emsworth -
02.12.06
Monday
9 October 2006
Very good news. Mary and
George popped into Emsworth on their way to Southampton
General Hospital where Lola had a check up with the
Consultant. All went well and Lola continues to make very
good progress after her second operation. Here are a few
snaps of Lola in Emsworth having fun with her Grandma and
with a plastic dish!
Lola
in her high chair in Emsworth - 09.10.06
Lola
with her Grandma - 09.10.06
Lola
having fun with a dish - 09.10.06
Tuesday
26 September 2006
Jean and I went over to
Southampton General Hospital, hopefully for the last time
for some years. We found Lola well and having some final
tests before being discharged. The nurses came to say
goodbye. They all love little Lola. Mary phoned from the
hospital at 5pm to say they were on their way home! They
stopped briefly in Emsworth for a quick bite to eat and
then made their way back to Kingston for the first time
for 2 weeks. Here are a few snaps from Lola's last day in
hospital and one from Emsworth.
Lola
with her Grandma - 26.09.06
Lola
having a play with her rattle - 26.09.06
Lola
being tended to by nurse Anna - 26.09.06
Lola
getting a welcome feed from her Mum -
26.09.06
Lola
having something tasty from her Grandma -
26.09.06
Nurse
Mike saying goodbye to Lola - 26.09.06
Lola
stops at Emsworth on her way home to Kingston -
26.09.06
Saturday
23 September 2006
Jean and I visited the
hospital this afternoon. Lola continues to make good
progress after her operation just over a week ago. She is
feeding well and her chest wound appears to be healing.
She is still having oxygen through a tube into her nose
and her pulse and oxygen levels are being constantly
monitored. Mary and Gelorge were allowed to take Lola for
a walk in her pram within the hospital grounds for the
first time since her operation, complete with oxygen
cylinder. It was a lovely warm afternoon and Lola (and
her Mum and Dad) clearly benefitted from the fresh
air.
Lola
having fun with her new book in the hospital ward -
23.09.06
Mary
and George meet a nurse in the hospital who previously
looked after Lola - 23.09.06
Lola
out for a walk in the hospital grounds with her Mum, Dad
and Grandma - 23.09.06
Mary,
George and Jean enjoying the sunshine while out for walk
with Lola - 23.09.06
Lola
enjoyed the fresh air in her pram -
23.09.06
Lola
and her Dad having a laugh together -
23.09.06
Thursday
21 September 2006
Lola had a couple of
setbacks following her operation last Friday. She had a
slight seizure on Sunday from which she seems to have
recovered. Then on Wednesday her chest wound opened up
with some discharge, but this is being treated. When we
visited the hospital today, Lola was awake, alert and
looked well. This afternoon Mary had a welcome break from
the hospital and enjoyed lunch and a couple of hours
shopping at West Quay with her Mum. George came over to
spend the night at Emsworth and he was pleased with
Lola's progress and said she was back to her "old
self".
Lola
with her Mum and Grandma in attendance at Southampton
General Hospital - 21.09.06
Saturday
16 September 2006
On Tuesday 12
September, Mary had a phone call from Southampton
General Hospital while she and George were at the Top
Drawer show in London to say they wanted Lola to go into
hospital that evening. There was some concern over her
low oxygen levels in the blood and they wanted to monitor
her before the second part of the Norwood operation which
was now due. The operation took place on Friday 15
September with the same surgeon who did the first
operation. All went well and Lola was transfered into
intensive care.
Jean and I went over to
Southampton General Hospital on Saturday afternoon and,
quite by coincidence, met Mary and George with a nurse
wheeling Lola along the corridor. Lola was being
transfered from the intensive care unit to the high
dependency ward E1. Lola was awake and looking around as
she was wheeled into the ward. Jean and I stayed for an
hour or so. Lola was awake for much of this time and had
her first small feed for over 30 hours. She was well and
everything was fine.
Lola
being transfered from the intensive care unit to Ward E1
- 16.09.06
Lola
in her cot on Ward E1 in Southampton GH -
16.09.06
Lola
all wired up in Ward E1 of Southampton General Hospital -
16.09.06
Lola
being tended to in her cot in Ward E1 -
16.09.06
Lola
with her Mum in Ward E1 - 16.09.06
Lola
with her Dad in Ward E1 - 16.09.06
Lola
with her Grandma in Ward E1 of SGH -
16.09.06
Mary
and Jean having a cup of tea in Ward E1 -
16.09.06
August
5 2006 - Emsworth
Here are a few snaps of
Lola during a visit to Emsworth at the age of 5
months.
Lola
at with her Mum and Grandma at Flinstones Cafe in
Emsworth - 05.08.06
Lola
with her Mum at Flinstones Cafe in Emsworth -
05.08.06
Lola
asleep in her pram in Emsworth - 05.08.06
Lola
awake in her pram in Emsworth - 05.08.06
Lola
standing (almost) in the garden at Emsworth -
05.08.06
Lola
with her grandad in the garden - 05.08.06
Lola
with her grandad in the garden at Emsworth -
05.08.06
Lola
(at 13 weeks) looking very healthy with her Grandma in
Emsworth - 23.06.06
Sunday
21 May 2006 - Emsworth
Mary and George stayed
the night in Emsworth with Lola on their way to an
appointment at Southampton General Hospital on Monday.
Lola is feeding well and her chest scar is healing
nicely. As the following photos show she is bright and
alert and looking very well.
Lola
with her Mum - 21.05.06
. . . Lola
with her Dad - 21.05.06
Lola
having a stretch -
21.05.06 . .
.Lola
with Uncle Danny - 21.05.06
Monday
8 May 2006 - Emsworth
Lola had the stitches
taken out of her chest wound today at Southampton General
Hospital. All went very well and she has another
appointment to see the surgeon next Monday. Mary and
George popped into Emsworth on the way home and here are
a few photos of the little girl who, as you will see, was
alert, active and looked very well indeed.
Lola
has a little smile for her Mum -
08.05.06 . . .
Lola
bright eyes - 08.05.06
Tuesday
2 May 2006 - Emsworth
Jean and I had a great
surpise this afternooon when Mary and George arrived at
the door with Lola. Lola had been dischared from the
hospital and they popped in on their way home to
Kingston. Lovely to see them all and with Lola looking so
well. She is due back at the hospital next Monday to have
her stitches out, so let's hope she will be able to
continue her progress at home until the next stage of her
treatment. Here are a few snaps from their brief stay in
Emsworth when we had a walk round the millpond and popped
in to see Danny, Karen and Lisa.
Lola
in our front room with Mary, George and Jean -
02.04.06
Lola
relaxes in her shawl with her Dad -
02.04.06
Lola
having a good kick - 02.04.06
Having
a brisk walk around the millpond -
02.04.06
Saturday
29 April - Southampton General Hospital
Lola continues to make
good progress and has put on weight. She is now above her
birth weight. Lola had a little set back last night when
the cannula in her hand, which delivers antibiotics, came
off. She had to be taken into the intensive care unit to
get a replacement which accounts for the rather large
splint on her left arm.
Lola
sleeping with her arm in the air -
29.04.06
Friday
28 April - Southampton General Hospital
Lola had a small
operation to tidy-up her chest wound at Southampton
General Hospital this morning. It took about 30 minutes
and appears to have been successful. Lola was awake and
alert when Jean and I visited this afternoon and was able
to take food. She has a couple of tubes and is getting
extra oxygen, but she looked remarkably well. If all
continues to go well, the surgeon said they could
probably return home next Tuesday.
Mary
and Lola with a get well card - 28.04.06
George
winding Lola with a bit of help from Grandma -
28.04.06
Lola's
chest after the operation - 28.04.06
Lola
alert and looking up at a mobile toy overhead -
28.04.06
Wednesday
26 April - Lola back in Southampton General
Hospital
Lola is back in hospital
- Mary and George took her back to Southampton General
Hospital today for her chest wound to be examined. The
wound has not healed since the operation 5 weeks ago. The
doctors decided to admit Lola into the hospital (in Ward
E1 as before) for a possible operation tomorrow. Mary is
staying in the ward and George has returned to
Kingston.
Friday
21 April - Lola at home in Kingston
Pete and Julia visited
Kingston this morning on their way from Emsworth to
London. It was a lovely spring day, so we were all able
to sit in the garden of "Rough Down" with Lola enjoying a
bit of real fresh Sussex air.
Lola
in the garden with Mum, Dad and Julia -
21.04.06
Lola
in her green pram in the garden of Rough Down with the
family - 21.04.06
Wednesday
19 April - Lola at home in Kingston
Mary, George and Lola
come home to "Rough Down" in Kingston! Exactly 4 weeks
after Lola's birth and 27 days in Southampton General
Hospital D-Day finally arrived. Jean will be staying at
"Roughdown" for a couple of days to help everyone settle
in.
George
does his first nappy change at home -
19.04.06
Lola
sleeps peacefully at home in Kingston -
19.04.06
Mary
enjoying the new swing constructed by George -
19.04.06
Tuesday
18 April - Southampton General Hospital
Jean helped out today
with Lola while Mary and George had some special training
about having Lola at home.
Jean
feeding Lola from the bottle - 18.04.06
Jean
taking Lola for a walk-about in the corridor of Ward E1 -
18.04.06
Sunday
16 April - Southampton General Hospital
Mary and George took Lola
out in her new pram for the first time today for a walk
in the very peaceful Hollybrook Cemetery. Jean and I
collected some rolls and drinks and we had a lovely
picnic on the grass in the warm spring sunshine. It was
so pleasant for them to get out of the hospital
environment for a little while.
Mary
and George with Lola in the cemetery -
16.04.06
Close
up of Lola asleep in the pram - 16.04.06
Having
a picnic in Hollybrook Cemetery - 16.04.06
Friday
14 April - Southampton General Hospital
George went back to their
home at Kingston this morning to do a few jobs and
prepare for the homecoming. Jean spent the afternoon with
Mary while Brian went for a walk round Southampton
Common. Lola had been moved out of the family room and
back into the open ward which means Mary will be back on
the camp bed tonight in the parents room! Lola is looking
well and Mary is managing her feeding well.
Lola
following a toy ring with her eyes -
14.04.06
Thursday
13 April - Southampton General Hospital
Mary and George were
moved into a family room together last night with Lola.
This was nice for them all, though Mary had to feed her
in the night. Lola is looking better every time we see
her; she is such a beauty and the nurses love her. The
cannula has gone from her hand and the antibiotics for
her chest wound are administered orally. She seems to be
feeding well, both from Mary and from the bottle and put
on a little weight for the second day running which is
good news.
Lola
in her cot surrounded by toys - 13.04.06
Wednesday
12 April - Southampton General Hospital
Lola is 3 weeks old today
and what a 3 weeks it has been! But things are definitely
improving with Mary having had a good night's sleep as
Lola was fed in the night by bottle. Lola put on a little
weight, now to maintain it. Peter and Julia visited the
hospital this morning and took Mary and George out to a
local pub for lunch, for the first time for 3 weeks. Here
are a few photos taken by Peter.
Julia
with Lola - 12.04.06
Peter
in an excitable mood - 12.04.06
Monday
10 April - Southampton General Hospital
Lola is looking better
every time we see her. She is putting on a little weight
and her chest wound is slowly healing. Mary is feeding
her, but Lola needs topping up with a little extra
supplement (which she is not at all keen on!). Mary went
shopping with her Mum to West Quay this afternoon, first
time out of the hospital!
George
feeding Lola a supplement she is not keen on -
10.04.06
Lola
having a stretch - 10.04.06
Some
of the toys for Lola from family and friends -
10.04.06
Friday
7 April - Southampton General Hospital
Jean and I delivered some
washing to Mary & George in the hospital this
afternoon. We did not stay long, but all seemed to be
going well. Lola was sleepy but looking good. Mary and
George were fine.
Lola
in a sleepy mood - 07.04.06
Thursday
6 April - Southampton General Hospital
Mary and George were in
good spirits today and Lola continues to make good
progress. Lola is now free of all the tubes and wires and
is looking good. Jean and I were able to have a little
hold of Lola for the first time today which was nice.
Lola's chest wound still has not quite healed up and she
is still on antibiotics. She still has the cannula in her
right hand for antibiotic treatment. Mary had a bed in
the 'parents room' last night and was able to use it
during the day also for a rest which was good. The
hospital nutritionist is concerned that Lola is not
taking enough milk from Mary. Apparently, there is milk,
but Lola is not yet strong enough to take it, so she may
need topping up. Mary and George had a walk outside
yesterday for the first time for 2 weeks, around
Highfield Cemetery! Today, George took Jean and I for a
walk in this very attractive cemetery in the spring
sunshine while Mary fed Lola.
Lola
with her Mum - 06.04.06
Lola
with her Dad - 06.04.06
Lola
with her Grandma - 06.04.06
Lola
with her Grandpa - 06.04.06
Tuesday
4 April - Southampton General Hospital
Lola has been moved into
a less high dependency ward in the Pediatric cardiac ward
and continues to make very good progress. The new ward is
nice and open and Lola has a cot near the window. It is
amazing how much better she looks with all the tubes
removed. She no longer needs oxygen, though her oxygen
levels are monitored. The only worry is the infection in
the chest scar for which Lola is having another course of
antibiotics, administered through a cannula in her right
hand; this will last until next Sunday. Mary and George
spent last night apart for the first time. At the request
of the nurses Mary spent last night in the ward so she
would be on hand to feed Lola. George went across the
road to the hostel where he had a sound night's sleep.
Mary was woken twice in the night to feed Lola, but is
happy with the new system, even though she has to sleep
on a camp bed in a play room! Mary is managing to feed
Lola reasonably well without top ups. Lola was awake for
much of the time Jean and Brian were there, occasionally
crying lustily.
Lola
with eyes open - 04.04.06
Jean found a photo of
Mary taken when she was only 1 week old. The resemblence
with Lola is remarkable.
Mary
one week old with her Mum in April
1969.jpg
Sunday
2 April - Southampton General Hospital
Jean and I visited the
hospital this afternoon and found Mary and George in good
spirits and baby Lola continuing to make progress. For
some of the time we were there (2 hours) Lola was awake
and out of her cot with her eyes open. Mary was able to
give Lola the best feed she has yet had for fully 30
minutes and Lola also had a nice long cuddle from George.
Lola still requires oxygen and her oxygen levels are
constantly monitored. She also has a feeding tube in her
nose (for top ups when necessary).
Lola
looking intently at the camera - 02.04.06
Lola
with her proud Dad - 02.04.06
Mary
enjoying fruit from the Kingston basket -
02.04.06
Saturday
1 April - Southampton General Hospital
Lola continues to make
good progress. The following photos were taken by Danny
when he and Karen visited the hospital. Mary and George
both held Lola. Mary was delighted that Lola was able to
take a little milk from her for the first time since the
operation. Danny also delivered a fine basket of fruit
and flowers from the neighbours of Mary and George in
Kingston.
Lola
with her eyes open - 01.04.06
Lola
with Mary and Karen - 01.04.06
A
basket of fruit for Mary and George
Wednesday
29 March - Lola in Southampton General
Hospital
Lola had a little setback
due to some haemorrhaging. She also had an infection of
the chest wound. However, there was no recurrence of the
bleeding and Lola was able to remain in the cardiac unit.
Mary and George were stalwarts throughout this critical
first week of Lola's life, remaining very positive. They
were provided with a room in a purpose-built block just
outside the hospital which was very convenient. It is
very early days yet, but Lola is a fighter. The name Lola
apparently means strong and she needs to be!
George
with Lola (whose head is inside a plastic hood for the
delivery of oxygen) - 30.03.06
Jean
helping to feed Lola - 30.03.06
Tuesday
28 March - Lola moved to the high dependency cardiac unit
On March 28 Lola was
transfered from intensive care to the high dependence
Pediatric Cardiac Unit Ward E1 where she had just had two
tubes in her mouth for food and oxygen.
Lola
with her proud Mum and Dad in the Pedriatric Cardiac Unit
- 28.03.06
Lola
in the Pedriatric Cardiac Unit of Southampton General
Hospital - 28.03.06
Lola
opening her eyes in the cardiac unit -
28.03.06
Lola
receives a Bravery Certificate from the Intensive Care
Team - 28.03.06
Mary
feeding Lola from a bottle - 28.03.06
Mary
and Jean with Lola - 28.03.06
24-27
March 2006 - Lola in intensive care in Southampton
General Hospital
On the morning of March
24 Lola had major heart surgery, taking 6 hours, after
which she went into the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit.
The heart defect that Lola has is called Hypoplastic Left
Heart Syndrome, where the left side of the heart, which
normally does most of the pumping of the blood around the
body, is not properly formed. The operation is called
"The Norwood" and, to put it very simply, enables the
right side of the heart to take over the work of pumping.
This is the most serious of congenital heart defects and
affects only 1 child in 5,000 and is fatal unless
operated on immediately. Further operations will be
necessary.
Danny drove Jean and
Brian over to SGH to see Mary, George and baby Lola. Mary
and George have a room opposite the unit where Lola is
being treated. The IC unit is full of high tech equipment
and nurses in abundance. Little Lola is lying there all
wired up with tubes in every orifice and surrounded by
dials, screens and a nurse writing down everything that
happens. But it was all very calm and reassuring. Mary
and George are so positive. I take some photos and
videos. Here are a few photos taken during the stay.
Mary
with Lola in intensive care unit -
25.03.06
Lola
with Mary and Jean in attendance in the intensive care
unit - 25.03.06
Danny
with Lola in the intensive care unit -
25.03.06
George
and Jean discuss Lola's progress -
25.03.06
The next 2 days were
critical, but Lola pulled through the operation thanks to
the wonderful attention she received in the Pedriatric
Intensive Care Unit. Lola made good progress and the
respirator was turned off on March 27 and she started
breathing for herself. Her sedation was reduced and she
started to move and open her eyes briefly. She even
managed to squeeze Mary's finger.
Thursday
23 March 2006 - Lola's heart defect discovered
The morning after Mary's
baby was born, a nurse noticed that she was becoming very
blue. A heart defect was suspected and she was
immediately put onto a respirator. The next task was to
find a hospital with the facilities to operate. Luckily,
a space was found at Southampton General Hospital to
where she was transferred the same night. Danny came to
the rescue by driving Mary and George from Kingston to
Southampton at midnight. Mary phoned to say she and
George had decided on the baby's name Lola May. Nice!
Here is a photo of Lola in intensive care at Southampton
General Hospital, before her major operation.
Lola
critically ill in Southampton General Hospital -
23.03.06
Wednesday
22 March 2006 - Lola born
Mary had a baby girl at
The Royal Sussex Hospital, Brighton at about 8pm. She had
planned to have the baby at home in Kingston, but the
baby would not come out, so she had to be rushed into
hospital for a forceps delivery. Mary phoned her Mum from
the hospital at 11.30pm. She was well and the baby was
crying. No name yet. She seemed happy, but we did not
know what was to come. Here are a few photos before
Lola's illness was discovered.
Mary
with Lola in The Royal Sussex Hospital before her illness
was discovered - 22.03.06
Lola
before her illness was discovered -
22.03.06
George
with Lola - 22.03.06