With
               no fluid build up in Lola's chest cavity (chylothorax)
               since the operation 3 weeks ago, the doctors decided
               that Lola was well enough to go home on December 14.
               Fantastic! So, George packed the car with all the
               presents and things that accumulated over the past 3
               weeks and drove back to Kingston. So, Lola was home at
               last with her Mum and Dad. What a relief, but we all
               know that these are early days in her recovery. Lola
               will remain on the strict no fat diet for 6 weeks with
               regular hospital check-ups.
               
               The
               following diary is in reverse chronological
               order
               
               
               
               
               
               Tuesday
               21st December 2010 - Lola in Emsworth
               
               George took Lola to
               Southampton General Hospital today for a check up. All
               went very well. The doctors were happy with her
               progress since leaving hospital a week ago and took
               her off some of her medication. They called into our
               place in Emsworth on the way home. We thought Lola was
               looking well. She is now walking, though remains in a
               delicate condition. Danny, Lisa and Joe came in to see
               Lola while she was here, which was nice. 
               
               Lola
               showing her drawing skills with this snowman
               
               
               
               Joe is
               keen to have a go himself
               
               
               
               Lola
               and Lisa having a serious chat
               
               
               
               Lola
               and Lisa played nicely together with the
               farm
               
               
               
               Story
               time with Grandma
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Brian
               was inspired by Jamie Oliver to make special mince
               pies (with gennaro)
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Friday
               17th December 2010 - Lola at home
               
               Lola has been home for
               a few days and is doing well. She has not found her
               feet as yet after her stay in hospital, but she has
               helped her Dad with the Xmas tree and yesterday was
               invited to Kingston Primary School to meet her new
               class mates and to see Father Christmas. Here is
               George's description of the visit in words which
               express so well what we all fervently feel and hope
               for our lovely little girl. 
               
               "She
               was somewhat overwhelmed, and to be perfectly honest
               so was I. Verity, her Pre-School key worker and Sammy
               her teacher had organised a collection for Lola, and
               had bought her a Nintendo DSi and games. Given to her
               by Father Christmas! A lovely thing to have done. It
               shows how much Lola is valued and cherished. Sammy and
               the school have made every effort to accommodate our
               somewhat erratic and undesired lifestyle! Lola has
               been through so much, especially this year, and her
               resources and spirit have been challenged and
               stretched beyond belief. I only hope this dark time is
               over, and that Christmas and the New Year will give
               our lovely Lola the healthy and happy future she
               deserves." 
               
               Lola
               at home with her Christmas tree
               
               
               
               Lola's
               first sight of snow at home and there's no stopping
               her!
               
               
               
               Lola
               opening the present she had from Father Christmas at
               school
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Tuesday
               14th December 2010 - Lola goes home!
               
               Here is a photo from
               George of the little girl all set to leave hospital.
               "One happy little girl, not sporting this season's
               fashionable chest drain!" as George put it. And
               doesn't she look well! 
               
                
               
               
            
            Lola
               was at home for 2 months after her first stay in
               hospital from July to September following the the
               Fontan operation. However, the fluid (chyle) again
               built up in her chest cavity and she was admitted into
               to Pediatric Ward E1 of Southampton General Hospital
               on Nov 24 where she underwent yet another operation to
               re-instate the drain in her side. On Dec 8 surgeons
               performed a thoracic ligation to stem the chylothorax
               and a pleurectomy to remove the lining between the
               lung and the chest wall. Lola was finally discharged
               on Dec 14. 
               
                For Lola's
               earlier spell in hospital go to . . . Lola
               in hospital 2010: July to September
               
               The
               following diary is in reverse chronological order.
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Sunday
               12th December 2010 - Lola is improving
               
               Jean and I went over
               to Southampton General Hospital for a few hours today.
               Mary was back on the ward from Lewes. Lola was in good
               form. Mary's friend Holly had made a cheeky monkey toy
               and put together a story book to go with it called
               'The Adventures of Cheeky Monkey', starring friends
               from Lewes whom Lola knows. A lovely idea. We looked
               after Lola while Mary and George had a Sunday roast in
               the cafe. 
               
               View
               of Lola's ward with sticker board, CBeebies on TV and
               toys everywhere. 
               
               
               
               Jean
               reading 'The Adventures of Cheeky Monkey' to Lola with
               the cheeky monkey looking on
               
               
               
               Whose
               a cheeky monkey, then, Grandma? 
               
               
               
               Mary
               brushing the knots out of Lola's hair
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Friday 10th December 2010 - Lola's
               progress
               
               Lola continues to make
               progress after her recent operations. She is now free
               of nearly all the attachments and was actually able to
               walk to and from the bathroom while Jean and I were
               there this afternoon. 
               
               Lola
               having her hair washed in the bathroom
               
               
               
               Lola
               walking back to her ward from the bathroom helped by
               her Dad and Nurse Becky
               
               
               
               The
               next step was to get the tangles out of Lola's
               hair
               
               
               
               Lola
               using the badge making set that the Southampton
               footballers gave her yesterday
               
               
               
               What a
               nice smile from our lovely girl
               
               
               
               Lola's
               school class having their nativity play with Lola
               present in image form at least! 
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Lola was on local TV yesterday when Meridian News
               showed the visit to the hospital of some of the
               Southampton FC footballers and their manager. We
               missed the transmission, but Mary gave us the link to
               the repeat.
               
               http://www.itv.com/meridian-west/fullprogramme/
               
               It is 16 mins into the
               half hour programme, but will only be on till later
               today. 
               
               
               
               
               
               Thursday
               9th December 2010 - So far, so good
               
               Lola continues to make
               progress. The drainage tube was removed from her chest
               yesterday, which was the main source of discomfort. No
               sign of any fluid. The catheter was also removed while
               I was there this morning. After I left, Lola got up to
               go to the toilet, a small but significant step towards
               recovery. In fact, Lola was looking so much better
               than when I saw her on Tuesday and was managing to
               reposition herself in the bed. She was delighted with
               two big parcels. 
               
               This
               was the first of two parcels that the postman brought
               for Lola
               
               
               
               Lola
               was delighted with the presents the parcel
               contained
               
               
               
               She
               particularly liked this glittery bag with a long
               handle
               
               
               
               The
               second parcel was even bigger! 
               
               
               
               and
               contained a very special advent calendar
               
               
               
               Lola
               having a laugh with her doctor
               
               
               
               And
               finally, George took this this one of Lola and
               me
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Tuesday
               7th December 2010 - Lola is recovering
               
               Much better news
               today. Lola is making a slow but steady recovery from
               her emergency operation on Saturday. She has been
               moved to a small ward all to herself. She is alert and
               sharp and eating again, though still in considerable
               discomfort. The dreaded drain may be taken out soon,
               hopefully tomorrow morning. 
               
               Two nurses aided by
               Mary and Jean, managed to lift Lola into a partial
               sitting position in the bed. Although she was far from
               happy doing this, it certainly lifted her spirits (as
               shown in the photos), as well as those of everyone
               around her!
               
               Lola
               got a present from Nurse Jo for being such a brave
               girl 
               
               
               
               Lola
               also got a sticker for her poster
               
               
               
               Lola
               helping her Dad to stir the plaster for the special
               fairy mirror
               
               
               
               Lola
               more her old perky self, entertaining us with a nice
               smile 
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Sunday
               5th December 2010 - Lola has operation
               
               Lola was very poorly
               yesterday with fluid again building up in her chest
               cavity (called chylothorax). So, the surgeons carried
               out an emergency four and a half hour operation last
               night. Mary rushed back from her show in Lewes to be
               with her (thanks to neighbour Martin for the lift).
               During the operation the surgeons performed a thoracic
               ligation to stem the chylothorax and a pleurectomy,
               which involves removing the lining between the lung
               and the chest wall. 
               
               Jean and I went over
               this morning. Lola was being attended in the high
               dependency ward and was attached to numerous tubes and
               wires. Mary and George are fantastically positive, as
               we all must be. But it is a very worrying time.
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Thursday
               2nd December 2010 - Lola in the snow!
               
               Lola's wish was
               granted today. Her Dad, with the help of a student
               nurse, got her out of the hospital, complete with
               drainage tank and all, to experience what was the
               heaviest snowfall for many years. And wasn't she a
               happy girl. Meanwhile, her Mum is stuck in
               Lewes.
               
               
               
                
               
               
               
                
               
               
               
               Sadly, relaxing Lola's
               no fat diet did not work out and the fluid is flowing
               again. There is unlikely to be any decision about
               future treatment until next week.
               
               
               
               
               
               Here are a few more photos of the little girl taken
               yesterday when Jean and I visited the hospital.
               
               
               Lola's
               ward with the car waiting by her bed
               
               
               
               Lola
               was pleased with her singing reindeer and her new Fi
               fi toy set
               
               
               
               Off
               she goes down the corridor to the playroom
               
               
               
               Lola
               using the new washing machine 
               
               
               
               I won
               that time, Grandma! 
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Tuesday
               30th November 2010 - A waiting game
               
               Jean and I visited
               Lola, Mary and George in Dolphin Ward this morning.
               Lola was generally bright, though had a few bad spells
               when she had pain from the drainage tube in her right
               side. It will be so good when the tube comes out, but
               not just yet. 
               
               The plan is to
               gradually introduce fat into her diet and then wait to
               see what effect that has on the flow of fluid. It
               would be brilliant if there were no effect, though no
               one is counting their chickens. We are all praying for
               the best. The little girl so deserves a break.
               
               
               Lola
               with her new illuminating snowman
               
               
               
               Lola
               loves to eat raw lemon, but . . . oooo . . . it is
               sharp!
               
               
               
               Lola
               playing snap with the girl from the next bed, and her
               Mum
               
               
               
               Lola
               giving Grandma a quick game, while her Mum and Dad
               have a chat with nurse Becky
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Sunday
               28th November 2010 - Lola is doing well
               
               Danny, Lisa and Jean
               went over to Southampton General Hospital to see Lola
               this afternoon. George had stayed the night with us in
               Emsworth, as he is doing this evening. while Mary
               holds the fort in Dolphin Ward. I was not able to go
               due to my ongoing chest infection, but Lola drew a
               nice picture 'for Papa who has a bad cough'.
               
               
               The news is good,
               though it is early days. Lola had a scan today which
               showed no sign of fluid and the surgeons plan to
               remove the drainage tube in an operation tomorrow.
               What happens after that is not sure. But Lola remains
               perky and enjoyed having Lisa to play with today.
               
               
               Lola
               having fun with Grandma 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               relaxing while watching 'Jungle Book'
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               having a laugh with Grandma
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Wednesday
               24th November 2010 - Lola is back in
               hospital
               
               I had hoped that I
               would not have to re-open this page, but sadly Lola is
               back in hospital. She was at home for 2 months after
               being discharged from Southampton General after her
               last operation. She had been on a strict low fat diet,
               and seemingly making a good recovery from her last
               operation, but in the past week the fluid has again
               built up in her chest cavity. 
               
               She spent one night in
               Brighton Children's Hospital (Nov 23) before being
               transferred to Southampton General Hospital where
               today she underwent yet another operation to
               re-instate the drain in her side. Mary and George are
               with her in the high dependency ward. There are
               discussions ongoing with the consultants about what
               further action to take. 
               
               Jean went to see Lola
               this afternoon. I have a bad chest infection so could
               not go. Lola was chatty as usual, almost 'home from
               home' in the hospital. But this is a very worrying
               time. Here is a photo of the little girl, showing the
               drain in her right side and the canula in her left
               wrist. The oxygen is available on her right shoulder.
               
               
               
               
               For Lola's earlier
               spell in hospital go to . . . Lola
               in hospital 2010: July to
               September