LOLA IN HOSPITAL - JULY TO DECEMBER, 2010
               
               SUMMARY
               
               The
               Fontan: Lola
               went into Southampton General Hospital on Tuesday July
               6 for stage three of the heart surgery for Hypoplastic
               Left Heart Syndrome. The operation (the Fontan) was
               carried out the following day (July 7). The operation
               was longer than expected at around 7 hours, but it
               went well.
               
               Lola was kept in
               hospital for 6 weeks after the operation due mainly to
               the build up of fluid (chyle) in her chest cavity (a
               condition called chylothorax). This fluid had to be
               continually drained by a tube in her chest. After 6
               long weeks, Lola was finally discharged from Hospital
               on August 16. The final X-ray showed a clear chest
               cavity. 
               
               However, after just
               three weeks at home, Lola was not well and X-rays
               showed the fluid was again building up (chylothorax).
               She was re-admitted into Southampton General Hospital
               on September 7 and the drainage tube replaced. Lola
               went back onto the strict no fat diet. Everything went
               well and after a final scan of her chest showed no
               fluid build up she was allowed to go home on Sep 18.
               
               
               Chylothorax:
               Lola was at home for 2 months but the fluid
               (chyle) again built up in her chest cavity and she was
               admitted into to Pediatric Ward E1 of Southampton
               General Hospital on Nov 24 where she underwent yet
               another operation to re-instate the drain in her side.
               On Dec 8 surgeons performed a thoracic ligation to
               stem the chylothorax and a pleurectomy to remove the
               lining between the lung and the chest wall. Lola was
               finally discharged on Dec 14. 
               
               The full story of this
               latter stage of the recovery is on page . . .
               Lola
               in hospital: Nov - Dec 2010
               
               
               
               
               
               DIARY
               from July 6 to September 18 
               
               (in
               reverse chronological
               sequence)
               
               Saturday
               18th September 2010 - Lola is home 
               
               Wonderful news. Mary
               and George were able to take Lola back home to
               Kingston today after the final scan of her chest was
               all clear. But this is early days. Lola came home
               before only to have to return to the hospital
               following a build up of fluid. But she will be on a
               strict no fat diet for another 4 weeks which should
               help her full recovery. Lola will go back to the
               hospital on Thursday for a check up and will be
               monitored regularly.
               
               
               
               
               
               Friday
               17th September 2010 - Lola coming home?
               
               We had some great news
               from the hospital today. Yes (fingers crossed) Lola
               may be coming home tomorrow! She had the drain removed
               this morning and will be discharged provided tomorrow
               morning's X-ray shows no sign of fluid. There has been
               none for the past four days at least. Mary rang to say
               Lola recovered quickly from the little operation to
               remove the drain and was the life and soul of Ocean
               Ward for the rest of the day. Jean went over this
               afternoon and Mary took the photos. There is an
               amazing video of Lola dancing in the ward.
               Unbelievable. 
               
               Lola,
               giving the 'all clear' 
               
               
               
               "What
               would you like with your tea, Mummy?"
               
               
               
               Lola
               taking her new Sylvanian Families for a spin in the
               hospital car
               
               
               
               Lola
               decides the hospital car needs a clean
               
               
               
               Lola
               remains on her no fat diet, but likes her
               celery
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Monday-Tuesday
               13-14th September 2010 - Lola in
               hospital
               
               Jean and I visited
               Lola on two successive days, partly to collect and
               deliver George's washing! 
               
               Lola was not too good
               on Monday, but on Tuesday she was a transformed girl,
               bright and perky. She was really pleased with a pink
               cuddly cat which she immediately named 'Milly'.
               
               
               The cannula has been
               removed from her arm, but the drain is still in her
               side. Good news is that there had been no fluid for
               the past 2 days and last night's X-ray showed the
               chest to be clear. So, fingers crossed! She hated
               having her dressing changed. 
               
               George came back to
               sleep at our place in Emsworth as there was not enough
               room for both him and Mary in the hospital. He said
               that Lola was absolutely overjoyed to see her Mum
               again when she arrived from the Top Drawer show in
               London. 
               
               Dr
               Lola checking on the health of the 'baby' in the
               playroom
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               and her Dad walking along the corridor in Ocean Ward
               carrying the drain
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               with her cuddly pink cat, Milly. 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               introducing Milly to Nurse Mike
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Friday
               10th September 2010 - Lola in hospital
               
               Jean and I went over
               to visit Lola this afternoon. Mary had gone to London
               to set up her stand for the 'Top Drawer' so George was
               holding the fort on his own in Ocean Ward. He was a
               busy chap. Amazing how much there is to do. He finally
               managed half an hour lunch break while we looked after
               Lola. 
               
               Lola changed wards
               while we were there, but she just moved to another
               single ward right next door. We bought a few toys in
               for Lola. The one she liked best was the pack of
               coloured pipe cleaners. 
               
               As shown in the photos
               Lola now has a drainage tube in the right side of her
               chest and a canula in her left wrist. But despite all
               this she was basically cheerful. 
               
               "Grandma.
               If that's a spider, it should have eight legs"
               
               
               
                
               
               Jean
               arranging the pin board in Lola's new ward. It was
               George's birthday yesterday! 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               having fun with the pipe cleaners
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Wednesday
               8th September 2010 - Lola back in
               hospital
               
               I really hoped I would
               not have to say this, but sadly Lola was re-admitted
               into Southampton General Hospital yesterday (Sep 7) as
               a result of the build up of fluid in her chest cavity.
               This was not entirely surprising after seeing her at
               home on Monday when she was not well. 
               
               Jean and I visited
               Lola in hospital this morning before she had the
               operation to replace the drainage tube in her chest.
               She was not herself and was anxious about the
               operation, but her spirit was amazing. She played with
               her playdough, went for a short ride in the toy car
               and watched the Wiggles on TV. 
               
               Beep,
               beep. Here comes Lola. 
               
               
               
                
               
               . . .
               but the effort was too much for her
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Monday
               6th September 2010 
               
               Jean and I went over
               to Kingston this morning to spend a couple of hours
               with George and Lola. Lola was clearly not well, but
               her spirits, as usual, were high. We all went for a
               walk through the village, though Lola was too weak to
               do much walking. 
               
               Lola
               taking her dolly for a walk in the front garden
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               having a go on her Mum's new scooter
               
               
               
                
               
               
               
               Wednesday
               18th August - Lola at home 
               
               Here are a few snaps I
               took when Jean and I went to visit Lola at home in
               Kingston, near Lewes. Lola is so happy to be back home
               with her family again. 
               
               Lola
               on the new climbing frame that her Dad and a friend
               built for her while she was in hospital
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               and her Grandma having a good laugh together. That was
               a good one! 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               having fun with her Papa with a blow-up whale
               
               
               
                
               
               We
               paid a visit to Mary's studio in Lewes. I wonder what
               George is telling Lola? 
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Tuesday
               August 17 - Lola is home! 
               
               We are all delighted.
               After 6 long weeks, Lola was finally discharged from
               Southampton General Hospital yesterday. The final
               X-ray showed a clear chest cavity, free from the fluid
               that had been keeping her in hospital following the
               operation 6 weeks ago. Here are a couple of photos
               from Mary's Facebook. 
               
               Lola
               gets the news. "Yipee. I am going home today!"
               
               
               
                
               
               And
               here I am to prove it. In my Daddy's car
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Saturday
               August 14
               
               George phoned this
               morning to say he Lola had an excellent night's sleep
               in an empty ward! No wonder after all the activity
               yesterday. 
               
               Jean and I visited the
               hospital this afternoon. Lola was screaming the
               hospital down when we arrived. She was having the
               dressing changed on her chest, though she stopped as
               soon as the nurse finished and said it was just a
               tickle! What a girl. George's brother Richard was also
               visiting and they went off for an hour while we looked
               after Lola. She was in fine mettle, driving her car
               along the corridor and getting us to pull her in the
               cart. But she knows when to stop and have a rest on
               the bed. 
               
               What
               fun being pushed around in a cart!
               
               
               
                
               
               The
               only view of the outside world from the Ocean
               Ward
               
               
               
                
               
               What
               sweet to have is such a difficult decision
               
               
               
                
               
               Ocean
               Ward is always deserted at the weekend
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               and her Grandma enjoying a show on CBeebies
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Friday
               August 13 
               
               The news gets better!
               
               
               Following a positive
               X-ray showing no fluid in her chest, Lola had a small
               operation to remove the drain on Thursday Aug 12.
               George said Lola had recovered well and was fine and
               hungry! But she is still on the no fat diet for
               another two weeks, which she is finding very boring.
               Mary is away at the Vintage Show at Goodwood, so
               George is on his own.
               
               - Jean and I went to
               see Lola this afternoon. As shown in the following
               photos Lola was in good form and almost back to her
               'sparky' self. George actually took her for a walk
               outside the hospital this morning and had some photos
               to prove it! She also walked to and from the playroom
               while we were there, playing with toys and paints,
               etc. 'I want to go home, now' she demanded, as all the
               other children in her ward went. Not yet, but surely
               it cannot be too long. 
               
               Lola
               showing Nurse Jo the photo of the whole family taken
               at Easter this year
               
               
               
                
               
               "Bet
               you did not expect to see me walking, Papa!" 
               
               
               
                
               
               "Grandma,
               what would you like to buy from my shop?"
               
               
               
                
               
               "Now
               I am going to be a dentist"
               
               
               
                
               
               "Can
               you catch me, Grandma?"
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               showing her artistic flair, just like her Mum. 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               and Grandma enjoying the meringues that Dev
               made
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Wednesday
               August 11
               
               Jean and I visited
               Lola in hospital this morning. Lola was bright and
               perky, despite the drainage tube hanging from her
               side. It was good to see her looking so well. Jean
               brought in Lola's new school skirt and sewed some
               buttons on for her. We also brought her some Das clay
               which Mary will use with her later. George spent the
               night at home in Kingston and brought her beans from
               the garden. She had a bath, which she thoroughly
               enjoyed. How relaxing. 
               
               Late News: Mary phoned
               with excellent news that the tube may be removed
               tomorrow if the X-rays show no build up of fluid. But
               Mary is understandably cautious as this has happened
               before and the tube had to be put back. Mary is going
               back to Lewes tonight to prepare for the Goodwood
               Vintage Show. 
               
               "Hallo,
               Grandma and Papa"
               
               
               
               Jean
               sewing button on Lola's school skirt
               
               
               
               "Do I
               look like a bean monster?"
               
               
               
               Lola
               really does love her bath time
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Friday
               August 6
               
               Jean and I visited
               Lola this afternoon. Last time we saw her on Tuesday
               she was up and about and making good progress,
               following the removal of the drainage tube from her
               side last Saturday. Would she be home soon, we
               wondered? 
               
               However, X-rays had
               shown a build up of fluid in her chest cavity, so poor
               little Lola had to have yet another operation
               yesterday to replace the tube. 
               
               So she was still
               recovering and was in bed all the time we were there
               today, but was in good spirits, lively and playful, as
               the following photos show. We left with a bag full of
               washing.
               
               Lola
               enjoyed playing with the train with Grandma
               
               
               
                
               
               Papa,
               do you know what a Puff Fish looks like? 
               
               
               
                
               
               How's
               that for a funny face!
               
                 
               
                
               
               Lola
               tending to her golden locks
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               having a story with Grandma
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               in sleepy mood
               
               
               
                
               
               George
               keeping the records!
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               enjoying a lolly while watching TV
               
               
               
                
               
               
               
               Tuesday
               August 3
               
               Jean and I visited
               Lola in Southampton General Hospital this afternoon.
               The change in Lola was dramatic from the last time I
               saw her. She was looking really good, bright, alert
               and typically sparky. She walked to the playroom and
               to the toilet while we were there and drove the
               hospital car. Lola's teacher at her new school in
               Kingston sent a lovely card with photos of all the
               children in her class. The bandage on her arm covers a
               cannula for taking blood samples. 
               
               Lola
               loves driving her car along the hospital
               corridors
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               showing Papa her friends at her new school
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               going for a little walk along the corridor with her
               Mum
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               working on her new pink computer in the
               playroom
               
               
               
                
               
               George
               making Lola some 'burnt toast' in the Ocean Ward
               kitchen
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               with her Mum and Grandma looking at family
               photos
               
               
               
                
               
               
               
               
               
               Sunday
               August 1
               
               Jean, Danny and Lisa
               went over to Southampton this morning to visit Lola in
               hospital. As you can see from the following photos,
               the drainage tube has been removed from Lola's side;
               this was done in a small operation yesterday. This
               meant she could wear the pretty nightdress that Jean
               gave her. The transformation was amazing, with Lola
               bright and alert and chatting away, almost as normal.
               She not only walked to the playroom, but also to the
               X-ray department which is another floor. Lola is still
               has the cannula on her right arm and is on the low fat
               diet. There is a long way to go, but things are
               definitely looking brighter. Lola's prospective school
               teacher sent her a book with photos of all the
               children who will be in her class when she starts
               school in September. 
               
               Lola
               playing with the farm animals with Lisa and looking
               suprised at something
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               posing for the camera!
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               enjoying the lolly that Lisa brought for her. Note the
               green book from Lola's school teacher 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lisa
               trying out the balls outside the hospital with Jean
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Wednesday
               July 28
               
               Jean and I went over
               to see Lola in Southampton General Hospital this
               morning. Amazingly, there was no queue for the car
               park! Quite unpredictable. 
               
               Lola had a small
               operation yesterday to replace the drainage tube that
               had become blocked. The surgeon also put a new cannula
               in her right arm, in addition to the one in her left
               foot. Naturally, Lola was still recovering from the
               op. and was not her usual ebullient self, but she was
               bright and alert. I recall Lola telling her dad that
               she would like to go on a plane to Spain, to go to the
               shops! There followed a discussion of Spanish sweet
               shops! No doubt very good they are too. The parcels
               that Mary ordered from Amazon which we took over were
               a major source of interest both for Lola and George as
               shown in the photos. 
               
               George
               with the 'Peter Pan' DVD that Mary ordered from
               Amazon
               
               
               
                
               
               Can
               I open it and have it on please? 
               
               
               
                
               
               We
               all know what George will be watching for the next
               year or so.
               
               
               
                
               
               Mary
               also got George a book about ducks to help with the
               Kingston brood
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               nibbling her favourite spaghetti while watching
               'Thunderbirds'!!
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Sunday
               July 24
               
               Here are a few photos
               from today's visit to the hospital to see Lola. She
               was in fine spirits as you can see. She is back on the
               0.2 fat diet which allows some nourishing foods
               including carrots, peas, spaghetti and prawns (not to
               her taste) and chocolate cake! 
               
               Lola
               the carrot girl 
               
               
               
                
               
               Jean
               made a special low fat chocolate cake for Lola. Is
               that all for me, Mum? 
               
               
               
                
               
               We
               all tuck into Jean's cake and good it was too! 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               having fun with Nurse Anna
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               inspects her new owl school bag
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               enjoying her spaghetti
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Saturday
               July 24
               
               I went over to
               Southampton General Hospital on my own this morning,
               as Jean was due to go to a quilting show with her
               friend Caroline, who is staying with us for a couple
               of days. The hospital was deserted, few cars in the
               car park and few people in the hospital. Amazing,
               compared with the weekdays. My first sight of Lola was
               seeing her walking back from the playroom with her
               Dad, the first time I have seen her walk since the
               operation. She was bright and perky with a lovely
               smile on her face. Lola still has the tube in her
               chest draining fluid, with George logging the measures
               regularly, just in case it got blocked again. Lola and
               I played with the Gruffalo snap cards that Jean sent
               her. The she had dinner, chicken and potatoes with
               tomato sauce. She and her Mum then tucked into the
               dried apricots that I brought in, they are high in
               potassium.
               
               Lola
               smiles for the camera
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               with her hair clips and ribbon
               
               
               
                
               
               I
               get into the picture for a change! Thanks, Mez.
               
               
               
               
                
               
               Now,
               Papa, you have to turn over one card at a time
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Thursday July 22
               
               Jean and I visited
               Lola this morning. Lola was in fine form, despite
               having some nasty things done to her. Mary and George
               are absolutely brilliant. Jean had a bag of washing
               for them. The car park is a nightmare during the week,
               but apparently OK at weekends. Huge queue for car park
               this morning. I dropped Jean off at the entrance and
               parked on the road. I have also parked in the cemetery
               with no problem. 
               
               Lola was surrounded by
               people when I got there. She was having cream on her
               arm in preparation for a cannula. She is on a new
               drug, though the tablet she had to take was enormous
               and she could not swallow it. Thankfully, the strict
               no fat diet has been relaxed to 0.2 fat in 100gms. So
               Lola can now have more varied and nourishing food.
               However, she still has the tube attached to her chest
               draining fluid. 
               
               Despite all the
               unpleasant things being done to her, Lola was
               amazingly bright and cheerful. She played with the
               bubbles for a while, then Mary and George took her
               into the playroom on the portable commode. She would
               not walk. In the playroom, Lola planted some sprouting
               seeds and then made a picture. 
               
               Nurses
               preparing Lola's arm for a cannula
               
               
               
                
               
               Jean
               trying (unsuccessfully) to get Lola to have her
               tablet
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               playing with the bubbles. Note the blow-up duck that
               walks! 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               and Jean playing a nose kissing game
               
               
               
                
               
               Off
               to the playroom on the portable commode
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               planting some sprouting seeds. Let's hope she is out
               of hospital before they come up! 
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               creating a picture with stick-on-shapes in the
               playroom
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               Tuesday
               July 20
               
               Jean and I visited the
               hospital on Monday July 20, almost 2 weeks after the
               operation. As you can see from the photos Lola is
               improving with a better colour and generally more
               lively. However, she still has the tube in her chest
               draining the lymphatic system and is on a very strict
               no fat diet, which makes the choice of foods
               difficult. Mary said the fluid was less today which
               was good news. 
               
               Lola
               dancing in time with the DVD on the TV screen
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               with lollypops (which she is allowed) and various
               other presents
               
               
               
                
               
               Lunch
               time with a plate of boiled potatoes, broccoli and
               cucumber. Her favourite carrot was to come.
               
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               taking her medicine very nicely
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               and Mum longing to be home
               
               
               
               
               
               
               
               July
               13
               
               Jean and I went over
               to Southampton to take Mary and George's washing back.
               We were delighted to find Lola out of bed and in the
               playroom, though still attached to her lymphatic
               drainage tubes. She was bright and alert, though she
               got tired quickly and wanted to return to bed. But
               what an improvement. They were moving her again up to
               Dolphin ward where Mary can sleep right next to her.
               
               
               Lola
               playing with a box of tiny marsh mallows that Jean
               brought in for her
               
               
               
                
               
               Lola
               returning to her ward from the playroom guided by her
               favourite nurse Mike
               
               
               
                
               
               
               
               July
               12 
               
               Jean and I went to see
               Lola in hospital today. The chylothorax seems not so
               serious as we first thought. The hospital are geared
               up to deal with it and actually have a leaflet about
               chyle leaks. This requires a fat free diet for 6 weeks
               to allow the damaged lymph system to heal up. A long
               haul. 
               
               Lola
               looking at some family photos
               
               
               
               E1 is a busy ward with
               things going on all the time. George and Mary have
               been with Lola all the time and have been quite
               marvellous. Mary stays in the hospital at night while
               George has a room in the house across the road, where
               he stayed when Lola was in hospital last time. We had
               a phone call from Mary later to say Lola had chips and
               beans, with chips done in special no fat oil. And she
               did her first poo since coming into hospital.
               
               
               
               
               
               
               July
               9
               
               Mary phoned a couple
               of times to put us in the picture. Lola was moved up
               to E1 the high dependency ward. She was alert and
               asked if the baby ducks had been born at home. She had
               started to eat, though had been sick. Then it was
               discovered she had a condition called chylothorax,
               which is caused by damage to the lymphatic system
               during the surgery. It means she is unable to digest
               any fatty substance which can be serious if allowed to
               build up in the chest cavity. So she is on a strict no
               fat diet for at least 6 weeks. Otherwise she is bright
               and relatively cheerful and wants to go home!
               
               
               
               
               
               
               July
               8
               
               Jean and I went to
               visit Lola the day after the operation. Lola was in
               the intensive care unit on a bed surrounded by tubes
               and monitors. We were delighted at how well she
               looked. She opened her eyes while we were there and
               asked Mary for cold milk. 
               
               Lola
               on the day after her Fontan operation
               
                